Threesome lessons from a woman who shared her boyfriend's dick with her best friend

Threesome lessons from a woman who shared her boyfriend's dick with her best friend

SexOctober 31, 2017 By Olivia Lee

“We’ve collabed one other time on a penis,” Lena Nersesian explains as she sits beside her best friend, Emily.

When the girls got the opportunity to sleep with a celebrity, they double-teamed him. The experience was pathetically awkward. One woman felt compelled to eat the other out, although it was clear neither enjoyed the experience. In between forced kisses, the friends whispered to one another, “I’m so sorry!”

As unpleasant as their sexual encounter was, it allowed Lena to begin mastering the fine art of the threesome. The wise “Lena the Plug” then created a YouTube channel where she could share her experiences and sex advice with the world at large.

Next time, Lena and Emily say, they were going to do a threesome the right way. In a YouTube video that became the summer’s internet sensation, “Lena the Plug” recorded her experience allowing her best friend to “try out” her boyfriend’s dick.

“Friends tell each other everything,” Nersesian says in the viral video. “So Emily has seen pictures of Adam’s dick, she knows all about our sex life, I tell her everything. And now, I don’t have to tell her, she can just try his penis.”

 

Since Lena’s video took on a life of its own, she and her boyfriend have released a number of new video collaborations. One in particular has again landed the couple in the internet spotlight, in which they share tips to perfect your own threesome.

First and foremost, they say, you’ll never convince a partner to consent to a threesome if your intentions aren’t pure. If this threesome comes across as some skeezy attempt to stick your genitals somewhere new, your better half will never sign up. Keep your intentions pure, maintain focus on your partner, and frame this third addition as a fun accessory to your sex life.

Beyond that, don’t pursue the threesome unless both partners are supremely confident in their relationship. Locking eyes with your lover of five years over some other chick’s buttcheeks is not something a lot of people can handle without having an emotional meltdown.

Once you’ve agreed you both want incorporate another person into your hump party, the next biggest challenge is finding that unicorn that will create a sex trifecta. If you both have your heart set on someone, feel free to ask them, but if they doesn’t agree, just drop it. Never push the idea of a threesome on an unwilling partner.

It’s essential to spend some time with your unicorn before bringing things to the bedroom. “We don’t just meet up and go fuck,” Lena explains about her threesome ritual, “we’ll take the girl out on a date.” Figuring out if there’s any real chemistry before ripping your clothes off will allow for the most silky smooth threesome possible.

And assuming you’re planning this menage a trois with your lady-partner, be sure to show her 75 percent of the dick, the couple insists, and don’t cross the finish line with the third party.

As if the third wheel isn’t feeling isolated enough by the end of this sexual encounter, you might want to kick them out after the finale. The post-cum cuddle session is an intimate moment you may not want your sex accessory to stick around for.

Finally, although this should go without saying, use protection. Three-way sex is difficult enough to figure out — no need to worry about three-way herpes treatment or three-way parenting, too.